Look, every relationship has issues to some degree. There is always work that has to be done. If you are disregarding warning signs, it’s time to take off your rose-colored glasses. Now, conflict doesn’t always mean your relationship is bad. But red flags are behaviors that should make you stop and think. Often, we don’t want to know the truth, so we ignore the red flags. Because that means something has to change… our lives, being alone again, maybe even ourselves. Bottom line is:  If your partner’s behavior causes you to feel uneasy, it’s a sign that you should talk to them about what’s going on. In order to build self-trust, it’s important to accept your feelings, whether that process leads to a breakup or a breakthrough.